About Us

Kristin is a Southern Georgia belle, who graduated from UGA as a veterinarian May 2010. Carter grew up in NC, went on to seminary, became an ordained pastor, and has completed his doctorate of ministry. After retiring from full-time ministry, Carter is thoroughly enjoying being a financial advisor (and volunteering on the ministry side of things). After about a month of emailing, asking questions, and going through the steps of eharmony.com, we were full of excitement and became very eager to meet one another face to face. October 25, 2009, we met and enjoyed every minute together. We had no doubt God was going to strengthen our relationship with Him as well as with one another. Carter proposed August 9, 2010 on the boat in the middle of Lake Wylie at sunset. Kristin said "Yes" after some happy tears. We got married April 2, 2011 and what an amazing beautiful day that was! God has continued to bless us throughout our marriage. On May 18, 2017, our family grew when God gave us our son, Micah. We look forward to see what He has in store for us each and every day. We are super blessed to be serving the Lord wherever we are. God is constantly surprising us with new callings!

August: Carter's Corner


How do you want to be remembered??

I have thought about that question a lot recently, wondering how I would be remembered, and how we remember others.  In Sunday School, we just finished studying 2 Timothy, which is the last letter that Paul wrote before he was executed. Paul wanted to be remembered not by his death, not by his persecution and killing of Christians, but by the fact that he followed Christ and led others to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. He wanted to be remembered as an apostle of Christ, not a persecutor of Christ. We do remember Paul for all the good he did spreading the Gospel of Jesus Christ. What if we remembered Paul for the bad he did? We would remember him as a murderer and persecutor of Christians. But...we have chosen to remember Paul
for the good he did and why should we remember others any less?


If we are honest with ourselves, if we were to be remembered by our deepest and worst moments of our lives, we would all be remembered very badly, wouldn’t we? In the same way, we must not judge someone by how they died but rather how they lived. Maybe the question is: How will Christ remember us??  We can rest in the assurance of 2 Corinthians 5:17, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

Romans 8 states:
“For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by Him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in His sufferings in order that we may also share in His glory.”


That is how I want to be remembered...as a child of God, co-heir with Christ. I don’t want to be remembered by my faults but by the things that are good and true. I hope to be remembered as Christ will remember me.

That is my challenge: to take the time to see and remember the good in people, see what is good and true as Christ does for those who are in Christ.

And remember, that NOTHING can separate us from the Love of Christ, not in life and not in death. Let us cling to that and live like we believe this through our relationships with one another today. 

Beautifully Cracked


Sunny.

Bright green ocean.

Sound of waves.

Our toes are finally back in the sand!

Fun morning walk on the beach.

Because of the busyness of life (and this crazy rainy weather), we had not been on the beach in a while. As we walked, we began describing the shells we were passing.  We even stopped several times to pick some up.

“Look at this one.” “It’s so big.” “It’s beautiful.” “It’s cracked.” “It’s broken.” “It’s almost perfect.” “It’s so different.”

Those were only some of the many descriptions we exchanged on our beach walk a few days ago.  Our conversation shifted quickly to how these observations made us thankful for the God we serve.  The shells reminded us of ourselves. We are broken people…yet God has chosen us. He’s made each and every one of us different…yet He loves all of us. We are beautiful in His eyes, despite our brokenness.

God continues to teach us on a daily basis. It’s challenging to slow down long enough to hear Him speak to us through His daily teachings some days though. Isn’t it awesome to be reminded that God “chose you out of the world?” (John 15:19)  Or that we are “God’s special possession?” (1 Peter 2:9)  Or how “God is love” (1 John 4:8)? How awesome is it that He makes “everything beautiful in His time” (Ecclesiastes 3:11)?

We would love to hear what God’s been teaching and reminding you of lately through His word, His creation, and the people He places in your life.  Thanks for letting us share another way He’s been working in our lives with you.  So blessed He put you in our lives.  We love you…each and every one of you.

July: Carter's Corner


“Vacation from Worship??”

In June, Kristin and I took a week off.  Since on a weekly basis we don’t have the opportunity, Kristin commented about how wonderful it was to be able to worship side by side. We love our vacation Sundays because we can worship next to each other and experience worship in different churches.  It made us think and wonder though about taking vacation and if we ever take a “Vacation” from worship.  God commands us to take a day of rest.  Sometimes, we think this means to sleep in and do nothing, don’t we?  I think that is not the case. Jesus says in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”  How incredible is that!  We aren’t to find rest by sleeping in on Sundays but actually rest in Jesus Christ.  That rest comes from spending time with our Lord and WORSHIPPING him corporately as a body of Christ.  The church is the Body of Christ so if we aren’t at church worshipping, then we are missing out on what God wants from us...Or actually what God commands us to do, because we are commanded to worship Him.  Yes, we also worship from home, and worship Him through our actions, but they cannot be taken out of the context of corporate worship.  If we aren’t being held accountable by corporate worship, then we aren’t following what God has called us to do.

One of the many many many things that I love being here at PIPC for is that every week we have vacationers, who know how important worship is, and they choose to worship with us on their vacation.  I also love hearing about all of the churches that you, our members, go to on vacation!  Isn’t it refreshing that we can worship on vacation at another church and it be a part of the same body of Christ?

I challenge us all to think about how corporate worship is not a request from God but a requirement, one that we don’t take vacation from, but find our rest in. We must make corporate worship a priority in our lives, not an option.  What’s a better way to start our week than a weekly appointment worshipping our Lord and Savior?  

June: Carter's Corner

Through the move, packing, and unpacking, Carter's Corner for June is getting posted a little late. Hope you enjoy it.  Be on the lookout for his July one very soon.
We love each and every one of you!
Kris and Carter


Carter's Corner
A time and season for everything…

It’s summer time!  The seasons change, the weather is warm, and “beach season” is here.  We attempted to go to the beach Memorial Day weekend just for an hour and found no parking ANYWHERE.  As we drive around for errands, to and from work, to visit folks, the roads are very busy again. I can honestly say Kristin and I have experienced an entire year here now.  The summer season, the fall season, the winter season, the spring, and now we are starting the summer again. Time flies!  I know many of you have been here for several years and have seen Pawleys Island change over the years and go through seasons of change.  Kristin and I traveled to her Uncle John’s funeral, where we had a season of mourning.  In our household, we have even had a season of being under the weather recently.  We are told that there is a time and season for everything...the fun and the sad.  The crowds and the loneliness, being busy and also slowing down.  Martha Henry, a PIPC high school senior, talked about “Mary and Martha” (Luke 10:38-42) in her senior sermon last Sunday.  I challenge us to take a season like Mary did and sit at HIS feet.  Joshua 1:8 reminds us to “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it.” If you have not taken a season to really study and mediate on the Bible recently, why not start today?  Take the time NOW...don’t wait.  We were reminded as Kristin lost her 49 year old uncle suddenly that we are not guaranteed another day and that we need to make the most of every day.  I encourage us to take time this summer, to take a “season” to sit at His feet, meditate on HIS word, and spend time with Him. Once this season begins, let’s make strengthening our relationship with God a lifelong season.  Besides summer, what season are you in, going through, or approaching?

Ecclesiastes 3
New International Version (NIV)
A Time for Everything

There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:


    a time to be born and a time to die,
    a time to plant and a time to uproot,


    a time to kill and a time to heal,
    a time to tear down and a time to build,


    a time to weep and a time to laugh,
    a time to mourn and a time to dance,


    a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
    a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,


    a time to search and a time to give up,
    a time to keep and a time to throw away,


    a time to tear and a time to mend,
    a time to be silent and a time to speak,


    a time to love and a time to hate,
    a time for war and a time for peace.

On The Go


Wow!  Does anybody else feel like it was just Christmas?  How is May already coming to an end?  We’ve posted many “Carter’s Corners,” thoughts we’ve had as we study scripture, or just multiple things God continues to teach us…  However, we haven’t shared an update lately on what’s been going on in our world.  If I shared it all, it’d be page upon page…  So, we’ll try to pick one thing that’s happened each month the last few months. 



January: Kristin began her second semester of teaching.  She says it every time someone asks how teaching is going, “What an amazing opportunity it is to be back in the classroom!  These students bless me each and every day.”  Kristin thanks God every day for reminding her that His plan isn't always "my initial plan." We all know He guided her down “this teaching” path, a path different than where she thought she’d be.  How cool it is to enjoy going into work every day!




At the end of January, Carter was in Charlotte for his first residency.  He thoroughly enjoyed meeting all his cohort buddies.  There are first, second, and third year students all together.  This first residency was “Pastor: Counselor and Caregiver.”  He was super impressed and liked how they could talk about some of the most difficult topics in a respectful and mature manner with one another.  Those two weeks flew by so quickly…he can’t wait until they are all together again next February.

February: We continued our “house hunt” journey.  We found what we think is going to be an awesome house and neighborhood for us.  Let the fun of house mortgage begin…ha!

We managed to escape on a youth ski adventure for a long weekend.  Like always, we cherish our time with these kiddos!



March: Kristin was just as excited as her students for Spring Break.  It was nice to sleep in and enjoy random beach walks.  (Our weather definitely wasn’t “springy” yet.)  We enjoyed the Robinsons being here that week for their spring break as well.



April:  What a fun filled month!  We celebrated our 2nd anniversary as well as Carter’s birthday!  We had one of our youth from Fairview, Alicia, come spend her spring break with us.  Was so awesome to have her here. We also went up to Myrtle to see a Fairview family, the Warnkens.  The Verdins stopped for a visit on their way to Charleston, too!  Towards the end of April, we made a short visit to North Augusta.  We squeezed in a couple dives in the river there. : ) Kristin was excited to be able to attend a women’s event at Fairview. Was awesome to catch up with so many of those women I miss! Always great to catch up with friends!





May:  We began the month with Kristin finishing up her Spring semester of teaching.  The day she finished, a couple of Kristin’s vet girlfriends, Fig and Rachel, came for a visit. 



Then, we headed to Atlanta for my Uncle John’s funeral before starting our vacation. 



From ATL, we went south to Macon to have dinner with Laura, Daniel, and SE for Kristin's birthday,



and then down to West Palm Beach to visit Leigh (vet school roommate) and to dive.  More dive stories will come…we are still in awe.  What an awesome WPB trip!  Wonderful first warm water, terrific visibility dive experiences! 
 



Some of our PIPC youth went through Confirmation.  What a joy it was to have the opportunity to work with these students!  Carter led most of the classes, and Kristin was honored to be a mentor to a beautiful teenage gymnast, Caroline!



We thought we were going to be closing on our house this month, but God has different timing.  Maybe next month?  He’s led us every step of the way of this whole “house process.”  We trust Him.



We enjoyed our time with Carter’s aunts, Brenda and Lynne.

 

For those of you who didn’t know, Kristin has been going through the interview process for full-time teaching.  She was extended an offer before she left the college Wednesday.  After more prayers and conversation with Carter, she accepted it the next day!!!!!  So blessed to be part of this HGTC family more full-time. 

More terrific news: We’ve been super excited with our “Under 40” fellowship group.  After much continued prayer, we recently had a “Under 55” cookout, which was a success, too.  On top of those, Carter has been working on a “young” men’s ministry.  It’s already started to take off. Kristin is busy getting a “young” women’s ministry started as well.  It’s been a slow start, but is coming around.  Just getting an email listserve set up with all the women under 55 in our church has been time-consuming yet exciting!  (There are more than I think folks realized, which is a good thing. He he.) We can already see that God has amazing things in store for these groups!



So…we’ve been busy bees.  Not a day goes by that we aren’t thanking God for His continual blessings He’s showering upon us.

Love you all!






May: Carter's Corner


"Whoever serves Me must follow Me; and where I am, My servant also will be.My Father will honor the one who serves Me." 
John 12:26

When asked the question: “What does it mean to you to be a Christian?”, what is your response??

If it is that you are a follower of Christ or a disciple of Christ, then you are on the right road. But I have a shocker for you. “You can’t be a follower of Christ unless you actually follow Christ!” It is a simple statement but profound none the less. Early on in my scuba adventures, I didn’t always do a good job of following my dive buddies and I found myself lost. (One of the top scuba rules is to ALWAYS stay with your buddy.) The same thing happens in our walk with Christ. If we turn away from Christ just for a moment, we can easily get lost. Again, you can’t be a follower of Christ unless you actually follow Christ. We have just spent the last 30 weeks reading through The Story, doing a synopsis, in order, of THE ENTIRE BIBLE, old and new testaments all together. Through the process of going through The Story, I have been reminded of how very clear the Bible is about how we should live, and how scripture is black and white with no grey area. So often, we want to ignore what the Bible tells us to do as well as ignore how Christ told us to live. The truth is that we can’t be a follower of Christ and do whatever we want to. Just like when I am diving, I can’t follow the group and also go off on my own. I’m either following the group, or I’m not. I’m either following Christ in ALL that He says or I’m not following at all. It’s all or nothing. If you have never surrendered to Christ or gone “All In” before, why not commit to Him and go all in today?
 

April: Carter's Corner


Thought I posted this... Guess not.  Only a month off, right? wink.  Enjoy!


Psalm 30:1-5

I will exalt You, Lord,
for You lifted me out of the depths

and did not let my enemies gloat over me. 
Lord my God, I called to You for help,

and You healed me.
You, Lord, brought me up from the realm of the dead;

You spared me from going down to the pit. 
Sing the praises of the Lord, you, His faithful people;

praise His holy name.
For His anger lasts only a moment,

but His favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may stay for the night,
but rejoicing comes in the morning. “Weeping may stay for the night, 
but rejoicing comes in the morning”

The ESV tells us that JOY comes in the morning. The Message says, ”The nights of cry- ing your eyes out give way to days of laughter.”

This is the Easter story. There was darkness, and now there is a great light. The light shines brighter than the darkness. Where there is light, there can be no darkness whatsoever!

On Easter, we celebrate the Light of the world. We celebrate the resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We celebrate this joy, the rejoicing, this day of laughter. We do a great job of celebrating Easter...the church is full, or overcrowded; we are excited to be here; we are excited to sing and worship. What about the other 364 days of the year? Do we live in the joy? Or are we living in the darkness, weeping, crying? 

There is a season for weeping, and a season for crying and mourning. But the Easter message is the message of Joy, the message of laughter. We can have the joy of the Lord year round. The Lord our God wants us to live in HIS joy.

My prayer for you, me, our entire congregation, and the community is that we can live in this JOY of the Lord. Yes, there will be hard times, sad times, times of mourning, but God gives us HIS joy and we can live in that joy each and every day.

If you have never really experienced the Joy that only Christ can give us, the peace that passes all understanding, my door is open. Please come by to talk to me. God’s joy, like HIS love, is AMAZING!