Coastal Callings

To Our Prayer Warriors,
I just got word from our soon-to-be The Reverend Doctor Robinson that his thesis defense went well and the defense was approved!!!!! Yippee! Woo hoo!

His next steps are to make some minor edits on his paper and then turn it back in to be published.

Ya'll have been asking for it, so....here it is:

2015 in a Nutshell

2015 was another year full of fun, laughs, challenges that only made us stronger, and new adventures.  It was another year covered with God’s blessings. 

We stay pretty busy with work, but as you will see, we always make time for friends and family, too. 

Jan: I kicked off another semester of teaching at HGTC.  I say it time and time again, but I never thought I would love and enjoy teaching as much as I do.  It hit me the other day that I jumped on the teaching train back in Fall of 2012…where has the time gone?  Boy have I been blessed in so many ways.  I thank God all the time for calling me back into the classroom. 

Speaking of classroom, Carter wrapped up his last residency for his doctorate in February.  It feels like yesterday that he started this amazing experience full of learning that has helped him continue to grow as a pastor, person, and counselor.

February was also a month full of weddings: Carter officiated a wedding in Virginia.  Not only did snow continue to fall, but we got to spend time with Evan and Calvin while we were there.  

And then, we had another wedding in Pawleys.

March:  Dad and Thea came to visit us in Murrells Inlet.  We always cherish family time!  

We also packed up our house to begin our new adventure in Florida.  We knew without a doubt that God was calling us to Boca.  

April:  Easter weekend was only the beginning of our Glades excitement. 

Then, Carter was installed as Glades 2^nd pastor on April 19th.  We are super blessed at the love, support, prayers, and encouragement our Glades family has surrounded and covered us with.  They know there’s life outside of the church and continue to remind us of that.  They know that our family is far away and they continue to encourage us to visit them.  They knew that Carter’s doctorate was going to take time, but they kept supporting and encouraging him through the process.  They love that we are a team in ministry.  They pray for us constantly and know that we pray for them.  They get overjoyed about us starting a family one day.  The list goes on and on…  We have been blessed that we obeyed God’s calling and that He trusted us to be a couple of His hands and feet down in Boca.

We put our SC house up for sale and I moved in with a dear friend for just over a month so the house could be shown whenever.  Carter and I were quickly reminded that long distance marriage wasn’t for us.  It was tough being apart.  He was in FL and I was still in SC.

May was a bittersweet month for me.  I missed Carter desperately but I also had such a hard time walking away from my HGTC family…people and a job that I loved.  (Thankfully, I am still working with them…now just teaching online and back as part-time.)  I have colleagues there that will always be mentors and/or friends for life!

Dad, Thea, Jenny, and Cameron came to Orlando.  We were super excited to join them at Animal Kingdom.

June:  We got to hook up with my aunts and cousins up in Cocoa Beach.  I can't say it enough...We always cherish family time!  

You have probably guessed already, but whenever we have free down time, we are normally at the beach or scuba diving!!!!

July:  I made my annual trip home for some Momma time and then returned back to FL to have a dear friend and her family close to us in Clearwater.  It is always awesome to catch up with Laura, an undergraduate college girlfriend of mine.

August:  We went to Charlotte for some time at the lake and with the Robinsons.  Duke is definitely our son…he’s part fish and loves being in the water as much as we do!  

We also took off to a Writing Conference up in Boston to help Carter with his thesis. Loved touring Boston…

We sold our SC house and bought our FL house!  Moving is always a challenging, time-consuming task, but we couldn’t wait to move out of our rental and make this house our home.  More blessings than we can count have already occurred under our roof…in this house God provided for us at His perfect timing!  (The FL market is something else…houses go on the market one day and are off the next.)

Sept:  I started volunteering as Carter’s secretary at church.  

Carter started really putting the pedal to the metal with his thesis.

Oct:  Some North Augusta buddies were at Legoland…so of course we had to go and see them.  We love the Rodgers!

I took a trip back to SC to connect with friends there.  That visit flew by super quickly.

I started teaching an online class with TESC.  It has been pretty cool to bring Veterinary Medicine back into this “Man’s Best Friend” course.

Nov:  We had an amazing first trip to Guatemala.  What a mission trip!  You will hear more about this with time through us sharing whether it be in person or off and on in our blog. 

We got back from Guatemala and Laura and her family were in Orlando so we had to go play and see them!!!

We spent Thanksgiving in Charlotte with the Robinsons and Carter’s family in NC.

Dec:  Not sure how December got here so quickly, but it was here before we knew it.  Guess what Carter mailed in on Christmas Eve?  His thesis!!!!  (He will defend his thesis Feb 2016 and graduate in May.  I am so proud of him!)  We had a fabulous first Christmas in FL with the Robinsons and then wrapped up the year in GA with my family. 

We can only begin to imagine what 2016 will hold, but we hope you enjoyed our 2015 in a nutshell (and…that’s only a snippet of our year).

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. Hebrews 11:1

Here's another Duke story for you. Remember how I mentioned we were working with Duke on his fetching? Whether on land or water now, Duke runs and is taking off eagerly to get his frisbee, ball, or stick BEFORE it’s even thrown.  What if we were like that?  What if we jumped out in faith with endurance and courage knowing that sometimes we don't 100% see where God is sending us?  What if we trusted God no matter what, even when we are unsure of the whole story of where  His next road curve in the journey He has paved for us will lead us? Duke trusts us and knows his toy will be thrown for him to go fetch.  As believers, we know that God has a plan and that we can trust Him to continue to lead the way.  His plan is way better than what we could make up ourselves. Do you trust that truth fully? 

In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:6

Most of us have heard the verse "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6  Many of you have met our sociable, out going, loving child, Duke.  While visiting Carter's parents in Charlotte this past August, this verse came to mind...Not only with how Bob and Mary raised Carter but also how we continue to work with our "baby boy."  I know many of you are thinking, "He's just a dog."  Yes, you are right.  However, we have to take time to work with him and train him so he is a good dog and fun for us (and anyone for that matter) to be around.  This can be challenging because he is still full with puppy energy. (We can't believe he turned one already at the beginning of May.) We still practice his "sit," "stay," and "down" commands that he learned in his obedience class a while back.  We have taught him how to shake, give kisses, and ride on a boat and wave runner as well.  The boat ones took a little longer than some of the other things cause he isn't exposed the those as often.  But he happily jumped on and was ready to go.  (He wondered why he couldn’t just jump off and swim when he wanted.) 

This Charlotte trip, Duke loved fetching the ball or a stick we'd throw into the lake. He would have fetched it all day had we let him. "Fetching," "bringing back," and "drop it" are still in the “working on” phase.  But boy has he come a long way!!!!! Has improved drastically.  Again, we have to train him and work with him. We enjoy training him. We know it will continue to make a difference...a big difference!  

The more I think about it, “Aren’t we all still in training daily to be more and more Christ-like?”

“And because you are sons and daughters, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” Galatians 4:6

While we had a blast with family at Animal Kingdom a while back, I kept hearing my nephew say, “Grandpa” over and over again.  Guess who was there when he heard his name?  My dad was there to pick up, hold, interact, and love on his grandson.  Boy does Cameron love his Grandpa big time!  Melted my heart in a special way…

God so wants us to call on Him…in good, in bad, when we are frustrated, to pray, just to talk about the day, to ask for advice, to praise Him for who He is, to thank Him for blessings and trials, and the list goes on and on.  When do you call out to Our Father?  Is it just in the tough times?  Is it once in a blue moon?  Is it daily?  Is it several times throughout the day?  

One of God’s many names is “Abba Father.”  Abba translates into “Daddy.”  It signifies the close intimate relationship of a father to his child.  We should be in a dependent affectionate relationship with Our Heavenly Father.  Are you?  “Grandpa” smiled every time Cameron wanted him.  Just think…God smiles when we call out to Him as well.  He’s there every time ready to hold us, pick us up when we’ve fallen, love us, and comfort us… We can honor Him by calling on Him and by making communication part of our daily relationship with Him.  

For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons and daughters, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” Romans 8:15

"So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened.” Luke 11:9-10

Ready for another beach story? Whenever we can, we enjoy being outdoors surrounded by God's beautiful creation and creatures.  I really think animals are some of God's greatest messengers.  We had just set up our beach chairs and umbrella, and we were peacefully gazing out at the calm, beautiful, bright-colored ocean.  I looked at Carter and said, "How cool would it be if we saw a dolphin?”  Carter knows how much I find dolphins so intriguing. Just neat animals!  Our time outdoors continued; we enjoyed a beach stroll; and then decided it was time for a swim to cool off.  I was standing tall looking out in front of me hopping around and running in place while Carter was cooling off under the water with his head looking the opposite direction. You probably have already guessed what happened next…  A dolphin swam right in front of me, maybe 10 feet from us! 

At first, I jumped and was a little startled.  Then I told Carter to look.  This reminded me to ask and seek... When we ask and pray for something, why do we get surprised when God answers it?  He answers all prayers in His timing and in line with His will.  No, I wasn't praying for a dolphin that day, but God knows the desires of my heart.

Another woman behind us asked in fear, "You saw that, too?” She immediately thought it was a shark.  How often do we see a miracle or have an answered prayer yet don't believe it and keep doubting things? Also, what are we missing cause we are looking back in the past instead of what's ahead?  Carter almost missed the dolphin because he was looking behind him.

One of our favorite things to do together is to purposely see what God is doing in our lives daily.  God continues to teach us, speak to us, and remind us of what His word says constantly.  We just have to slow down long enough to see/hear it.  Our hearts have to be ready and eager to be in communication with Our Father.

Makes you think, doesn't it? Made us think that’s for sure!

"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path." Psalm 119:105

Early one morning, Carter and I enjoyed what seemed like a private beach.  So quiet.  Relaxing.  Peaceful.  We couldn't believe that we were the only ones out there for a while...just us and a crab.  We sat and watched Mr. Crab work pretty hard as he dug and dug sand out to form his home.  He went in and out repeatedly and kept tossing his claw full of sand.  Over time, the sand was building a mound.  It's neat what God spoke to us while watching this crab.  Mr. Crab peaks, slowly inches out, and then tosses the sand. Over and over and over again.

"Are we digging and digging into scripture daily to see what God guides us to do to become more and more like Christ?  Are we learning more about God’s heart?” As we dig, we are increasing our knowledge of what scripture says like the increasing size of Mr. Crab’s sand mound.  Once we learn more, it's not only helping us grow in our relationship with Him, but it also makes it easier for us to share what He is teaching us/what we are learning with others.